We constantly doubt ourselves.
At a restaurant we may order the steak and your friend may order the chicken. The chicken now sounds better and you wonder if you should change your order.
You’re in a relationship but your single friends look like they are having more fun. You now wish you were single.
Your friend is on the new fad diet and is losing weight. So you want to try it too.
It seems people don’t want to miss out on something better. We constantly doubt ourselves and question everything. When in reality, everything has its positive and negatives, nothing is going to be perfect.
While it does seem the grass is always greener, sometimes you get there and realise you made a mistake.
Maybe it’s best to focus on the now and try watering the grass that you have, nurture what you have and be grateful. Change your attitude. There are many people wishing they had what you had too. While you may compare yourself to people who appear ‘happy’ maybe compare yourself to others who don’t have it as good.
You may just find out if you stop doubting, that the best thing that ever happened to you is in front of you now. Don’t let it pass you by or you will miss out.